May 10, 2026
Relationships: Learning to Be Present
We don’t waste life all at once. It happens day by day.
“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.” – Ephesians 5:15-17
Every day matters with relationships.
Luke 10:38-42
Relationships …
1. Deteriorate when distraction replaces presence
“… Martha was distracted with much serving.” – Luke 10:40
Distraction, rather than conflict, is often the greatest threat to relationships.
Relationships …
2. Struggle when expectations replace communication
“Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone?” – Martha, Luke 10:40
Resentment is often unmet expectations left unsaid.
Relationships …
3. Are unhealthy when your value depends on performance.
“Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary.” – Jesus, Luke 10:41
Relationships suffer when love is viewed as something to earn rather than something freely given
Relationships …
4. Strengthen when we prioritize presence over productivity
“Mary has chosen the good portion …” – Jesus, Luke 10:42
One of the clearest ways to love people is to give them your presence.
The way Jesus teaches us to love others is also how He invites us to relate to Him.
“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself…” – Jesus, Matthew 22:37-39
Let’s stay aware …
Of distractions
Of expectations
Of value determined by performance
So that we prioritize presence
How can you be more fully present with Jesus and the people you love?
