We are so glad you joined us for Married Couples Night and want to keep the conversation going. Here are resources to help.

If every married person would regularly focus on God above all else, many problems would disappear. Our marriage problems are not really marriage problems. They are heart problems. They are God problems. Our lack of intimacy with God causes a void that we try to fill with the frailest of substitutes. Like wealth or pleasure. Like fame or respect. Like people. Like marriage.” – Francis Chan

Action 1: Schedule a time to meditate on God and His Word for 15 minutes every day (first thing in the morning, during your lunch break, before your nightly clean-up)

Action 2: Ask your spouse what it would look like to have a marriage with an eternal perspective rooted in glorifying God. What obstacles get in the way of this?

If you’ve been around Fairhaven for any length of time, you know that we believe life is better together, and we encourage everyone to be part of a small group.

This would be a perfect time to start or join a small group and continue the discussion about marriage. Click the link below to find out how to get connected, register your table as a small group, or join an existing group.


Join the Coker Small Group – Mondays at 6:00 PM

Register your table as a small group

Learn about other small group opportunities

Right Now Media is a free resource you can use to dive into Francis and Lisa Chan’s study called You and Me Forever.

WATCH: You & Me Forever trailer

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This seven session Bible study series, based on the book You and Me Forever from best-selling author Francis Chan and Lisa Chan, will challenge you to view your marriage like never before. 

VIDEO SERIES: You & Me Forever

Though you are welcome to do more, we encourage you to watch sessions 2-4 and use the free study guide for discussion. We also highly recommend the book You and Me Forever, which the series is based on.